Dealing with heartaches

    

                Do you ever have hard times figuring out what in the world had happened after your girlfriend or boyfriend broke up with you? Most teenagers nowadays have problem on their love, mostly being dumped, and the big, big reason is the relationship is not working, there are effects on this it is that they can’t continue or concentrate on the activities that are going around them. This essay will gives ways to deal with break up such as, cut off contact, let it out, stay busy, stay single, and getting help.

                According to love-session.com (2006, love-session) two of the big main reasons of breaking up is “The relationship is not working well” and “I want to be independent”. These are two reasons why teenagers broke up because each and everyone has their own world and thinking but they are not talking together and then “I think I want to be single”, then breaking up is the only solution at then. Another reason is stay alone is more free, Everyone can do anything they wish to, don’t have to care for another person, just to do in what he or she wants.

                What comes after being dumped is heartaches, can’t concentrate on anything, try to forget him or her but it is very hard, the memories are stick in the brain. Here comes solution to these and other more problems. One solution that I tried and it works is cutting off contact, well cutting off contacts will make anyone who do a severe pain in the heart, but  the truth is that one will realize that chances of getting back together is no more that is the end of the story. This will help one in long term, believe me.

                Another solution to heartbroken is suggested from e how.com (2009, e.how) is that to let everything in that pain out. If you want to cry, then cry like waterfall. If you want to yell, then yell as loud as you can. By this way it will help the one who is having a severe pain to heal that pain faster because if one is crying until having no more tears to cry by then one, will feel much better because letting everything out.

                One more bad solution that is not worthy to so is committed to suicide, before thinking to suicide think first does that person really worth for your life, think of one parents will they be proud or will they be happy to see their own child suicide because of love. If one is thinking of this it means that one is stupid to throw the life for just a guy or a girl that did not even love them. After following my advice one will be better for hundred percent I guaranteed that. Believe me those two solutions above me will give you the results that you’ll never regret.

Bibliography : 

e how. (2008), How to deal with you heart broken from

             http://www.ehow.com/way_53170993_do-youre-heartbroken.html,

             Retrieved on September 21,2010

 Love-session.com (no date), Relationship and Love Desire from

             http://www.love-session.com/why_break_up.htm,

             Retrieved on September 22, 2010